Wednesday, October 20, 2004

Kissing-- How important is it?

How important is kissing for you, especially if you dont like the way the other person kisses?

For me personally the way the other person kisses might become the make of break of the moment(an absolute turn off if he's a bad kisser), I thought everyone was like that( I know, I know...silly :p ), however after speaking with my colleague I'm not that sure anymore.... After going out with someone and kissing her for the first time he really disliked the way she kissed, but mentioned that didnt matter as she is a really good girl...

Am I being too shallow saying that it would be very hard for me to go out with someone if I didn't like the way he kissed?


I've been doing some research on the matter of kissing and surprise, surprise found loads of sites willing to give one tips and advice on kissing and kissing "styles".
Most of it its about the first kiss in your life.. what to do? So i say, if you dont like the way he kisses dump him... : )


Here's Basic Kissing Tips, that I found on one of the websites(kissingbooth.com) :

--Great Breath ( because one usually has bad breath !!!???!!! )
--Moist Lips ( .. )
--Positioning ( .. another thing to stress about )
--Close Eyes ( or just keep then open and get and headache :P )
--Open Lips ( cause one wouldnt think of doing that... )
--Closed Lips (if you dont like the guy/girl :p )
--Hands ( ???? )



Because what one needs is to stress about all this when giving your first kiss.




On this note, i'll finish with a couple of quotes about kissing


"A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous."
-Ingrid Bergman



"The decision to kiss for the first time is the
most crucial in any love story. It changes the
relationship of two people much more strongly
than even the final surrender; because this kiss
already has within it that surrender.
-Emil Ludwig (1881-1948)-"


In case you're wondering- boring day at work, lots of free time..
And feel free to leave your comment if you're bothered..